It's supposed to be significant change for them. Everything we do and will do in life may be far from our ideal as we dreamed in childhood. Those fake depression's structured and be interpreted as truth in the society which confuse a few romantists in a weird way. Chances we can controll are already gone yet nobody going to realize it's already lost since we're still chasing a mirage of ideal aspects of existence. Nothing we do, everything will pass without any recognition just the way as it's being done.